I knew a man who did not know how to love a woman.
He could not love himself.He was filled with anger and hatred for a girl in his past.
He determined this was her fault.Then he decided it was me he was angry with, because of her.
He forgot that he loved me, or did I only imagine that he had?He was unable to empathize with others in pain.
He would not allow himself to feel.I loved and adored this man and gave him all that I had to give.
He never saw this because he could not believe this.I thought that his praises and rewards and adoration were acceptance.
He was patronizing and biding his time.I assumed that his smile and willingness and gifts were acknowledgement.
He was the good guy, and I was filling a gap.In the end he could not say goodbye. He was unable to just walk away.
He had to find a way to make me wrong. This made it easier on him.For so long, I searched for answers as I sat in denial.
I wanted to believe he would return. I wanted to believe I was wrong.The thought of never seeing, touching, or being held by him was more than I could bare.
If this were true than the whole time was no more than a mirage.I would be laughed at for being such a fool and the humiliation was more than I could take.
Deceit is a game I do not play and yet he had no qualms about playing me.All alone I sat in wait, month by month, hoping and praying.
In darkness, I saw a shadow of light, as time went on, it became brighter.God held my hand as I returned to walk beside him once more.
If I should falter, He stood me back up.Once more I walked my path alone, though this time reassured.
My devotion and faith – now consistent and clear.He will lead us together, and I will find, the person I thought that I already had.
Jeannine Vegh, 2021